feat(vpn): enable vpn-egress on OpenVPN-UDP; align docs to ADR-0013 amendment

Gluetun cannot do PIA over WireGuard (upstream unsupported; live "provider name
is not valid for Wireguard"). Operator approved OpenVPN-UDP and ADR-0013 was
amended in the spec. This aligns the impl:

- platform/kustomization.yaml: re-enable `- vpn-egress` (Phase 3, OpenVPN-UDP)
- gluetun-gateway.yaml: clean stale WireGuard comments (header, image note,
  VPN_TYPE/creds comments); config already VPN_TYPE=openvpn
- README.md: PIA-over-OpenVPN, status=enabled, steering iface wg0 -> tun0
- DECISIONS-LOG.md: disk/drive incident (k3s -> NVMe; failing Seagate) + Phase-3
  OpenVPN resolution

Stale WireGuard comments inside the operator's encrypted pia-credentials.sops.yaml
header left untouched (editing breaks the SOPS MAC; cosmetic).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <[email protected]>

platform/kustomization.yaml

@@ -17,8 +17,8 @@ resources:
   - cert-manager       # Let's Encrypt DNS-01 wildcard — needs SOPS `cloudflare-api-token`
   - externaldns        # auto DNS records — needs SOPS `cloudflare-api-token`
   - gateway            # Gateway API listeners (ingress; replaces Traefik)
-  # ---- Phase 3 — Egress / VPN (PIA creds provisioned via SOPS) ----
-  - vpn-egress         # shared Gluetun PIA/WireGuard egress gateway + kill-switch (ADR-0013)
+  # ---- Phase 3 — Egress / VPN (PIA creds provisioned via SOPS; OpenVPN-UDP per ADR-0013 amendment) ----
+  - vpn-egress         # shared Gluetun PIA/OpenVPN-UDP egress gateway + kill-switch (ADR-0013)
   # ---- Phase 4 — Observability (creds provisioned via SOPS: grafana-admin, alertmanager-smtp) ----
   - monitoring         # kube-prometheus-stack + Loki + Alloy + Alertmanager
   # ---- Later phases: enabled when their phase opens ----